Friday, December 3, 2010

kape at pag ibig

Ang love nga naman…parang kape!!!
Masarap kung mainit, pamawi ng lamig
Dama ang sarap, hanggang sa dibdib.
Minsan matamis, ika’y masisiyahan
Nag-uumapaw ang yong kasiyahan
Minsan masarap yung may halong creamer
Ang pag-ibig ay nagiging wilder
Romantic ang dating pag may surprises
Capuccino, mochaccino, u can never guess
Pero hindi naman lagi kang masasarapan
Tulad ng kape, love ay tumatabang
Nawawala ang aroma, kung nanlalamig
Nawawala ang saya kapag kulang ang pag-ibig.
Minsan mapait, at sobrang tapang
Ang pag-ibig ay sakit sa lalamunan
Kapag ika’y napaso sa sobrang init
Mailuluwa mo dahil sa sakit.
BUWISIT NA PAG-IBIG YAN!!! BAKIT AYAW AKONG TANTANAN???!!!
Bumabalik-balik kahit na ako’y masaktan
Ilang beses ko nang sinabi, na ayaw ko na!

philippine superhero

 
Sa may asawa, kapatid, anak, kaibigan, at kamag-anak na OFW.
At lalo na sa mga gustong mangibang-bansa. ..
Nais ko rin ibahagi sa inyo, ang natanggap kong email na ito.
Maaaring makatulong ito upang lalong maintindihan ng bawa't isa ang tunay na ibig sabihin ng pagiging isang OFW. Tiyak na may mapupulot tayong aral dito.

Hindi mayaman ang OFW - We have this notion na 'pag OFW o nasa abroad ay mayaman na. Hindi totoo yun. A regular OFW might earn from P20K-P30K per month depende sa lokasyon. Yung mga taga-Saudi or US siguro ay mas malaki ang sweldo, but to say that they're rich is a fallacy (amen!).

Malaki ang pangangailangan kaya karamihan ay nag-a-abroad. Maraming bunganga ang kailangang pakainin kaya umaalis ang mga pipol sa Philippines. Madalas, 3/4 o kalahati ng sweldo ay napupunta sa tuition ng anak at gastusin ng pamilya.

Mahirap maging OFW - Kailangan magtipid hangga't kaya. Oo, masarap ang pagkain sa abroad pero madalas na paksiw o adobo at itlog lang tinitira para makaipon. Pagdating ng kinsenas o katapusan, ang unang tinitingnan eh ang conversion ng peso sa yen, dollar, rial o euro. Mas okay na magtiis sa konti kaysa gutumin ang pamilya.

Kapag umuuwi, kailangan may baon kahit konti kasi maraming kamag-anak ang sumusundo sa airport o naghihintay sa probinsya. Alam mo naman 'pag Pinoy, yung tsismis na OFW ka eh surely attracts a lot of kin. Kapag hindi mo nabigyan ng pasalubong eh magtatampo na yun at sisiraan ka na.

Well, hindi naman lahat pero I'm sure sa mga OFW dito eh may mga pangyayaring ganun. Magtatrabaho ka sa bansang iba ang tingin sa mga Pinoy. Malamang marami ang naka-experience ng gulang o discrimination to their various workplaces. Sige lang, tiis lang, iniiyak na lang kasi kawawa naman pamilya 'pag umuwi.

Besides, wala ka naman talagang maasahang trabaho sa Philippines ngayon. Mahal ang bigas, ang gatas, ang sardinas, ang upa sa apartment. Tiis lang kahit maraming kupal sa trabaho, kahit may sakit at walang nag-aalaga, kahit hindi masarap ang tsibog, kahit pangit ang working conditions, kahit delikado, kahit mahirap. Kapag nakapadala ka na, okay na, tawag lang, "hello! kumusta na kayo?".

Hindi bato ang OFW - Tao rin ang OFW, hindi money o cash machine. Napapagod rin, nalulungkot (madalas), nagkakasakit, nag-iisip at nagugutom. Kailangan din ang suporta, kundi man physically, emotionally o spiritually man lang.

Tumatanda rin ang OFW - Sa mga nakausap at nakita ko, marami ang panot at kalbo na. Most of them have signs and symptoms of hypertension, coronary artery disease and arthritis. Yet, they continue to work thinking about the family they left behind.

Marami ang nasa abroad, 20-30 years na, pero wala pa ring ipon. Kahit anong pakahirap, sablay pa rin. Masakit pa kung olats rin ang sinusuportahang pamilya - ang anak adik o nabuntis; ang asawa may kinakasama na rin. Naalala ko tuloy ang sikat na kanta dati, "NAPAKASAKIT KUYA EDDIE!"

Bayani ang OFW - Totoo yun! Ngayon ko lang na na-realize na bayani ang OFW sa maraming bagay. Hindi bayani na tulad ni Nora Aunor o Flor Contemplacion. Bayani in the truest sense of the word. Hindi katulad ni Rizal o Bonifacio na kalayaan ang ipinaglaban. Mas higit pa dun, mas maraming giyera at gulo ang pinapasok ng OFW para lang mabuhay.

Mas maraming pulitika ang kailangang suungin para lang tumagal sa trabaho lalo na't kupal ang mga kasama sa trabaho. Mas mahaba ang pasensya kaysa sa mga ordinaryong kongresista o senador sa Philippines dahil sa takot na mawalan ng sweldo.

Matindi ang OFW - Matindi ang pinoy. Matindi pa sa daga, o cockroaches which survived the cataclysmic evolution.
Maraming sakripisyo pero walang makitang tangible solutions or consequences. Malas ng OFW, swerte ng pulitiko - Hindi umuupo ang OFW para magbigay ng autograph o interbyuhin ng media (unless nakidnap!). Madalas nasa sidelines lang ang OFW. Kapag umaalis, malungkot and on the verge of tears.

Kapag dumadating, swerte 'pag may sundo( madalas meron).
Kapag naubos na ang ipon, wala ng kamag-anak. Sana sikat ang OFW para may boses sa Kamara.

Ang swerte ng mga politiko nakaupo sila at ginagastusan ng pera ng Filipino. Hindi nga sila naiinitan o napapaso ng langis, o napagagalitan ng amo, o kumakain ng paksiw para makatipid, o nakatira sa compound with conditions less than favorable, o nakikisama sa ibang lahi para mabuhay. Ang swerte, sobrang swerte nila.

Matatag ang OFW - Matatag ang OFW, mas matatag pa sa sundalo o kung ano pang grupo na alam nyo. Magaling sa reverse psychology, negotiations at counter-attacks.

Tatagal ba ang OFW?
Tatagal pa kasi hindi pa natin alam kailan magbabago ang Philippines , kailan nga kaya?
o may tsansa pa ba?

Masarap isipin na kasama mo ang pamilya mo araw-araw.
Nakikita mo mga anak mong lumalaki at naaalagaan ng maayos. Masarap kumain ng sitaw, ng bagoong, lechon, inihaw na isda, taba ng talangka. Masarap manood ng pelikulang Pinoy, luma man o bago. Iba pa rin ang pakiramdam kung kilala mo ang kapitbahay mo. Iba pa rin sa Philippines , iba pa rin kapag Pinoy ang kasama mo except ('pag kupal at utak-talangka) , iba pa rin 'pagnagkukwento ka at naiintindihan ng iba ang sinasabi mo. Iba pa rin ang tunog ng "mahal kita!", "day, ginahigugma tika." "Mingaw na ko nimo ba, kalagot!", " Inday, diin ka na subong haw? ganahan guid ko simo ba".

Iba pa rin talaga.
Sige lang, tiis lang, saan ba't darating din ang pag-asa.
Kung OFW ka at binabasa mo ito, mabuhay ka dahil ikaw ang tunay na BAYANI ng lahing PILIPINO!!!


Blessed Be.

to my classmates

To my classmates


How would we know then
as we know now
that time would fly by so quickly ?
Each 10-year cycle
30's , 40's , 50's , 60's
with each new ten-year reunion
it became more difficult to decide
if we were going to get to it
It also got more difficult
to make jokes about how we had aged
with each new one
Now it's just resignation
And when we can ,
we strive to make special mention
of each others qualities
- both inside and out
and we are attempting to slip
into the dry dock
with dignity
to do preparations and patch - up jobs
for the remaining journey
But the memories remain warm and clear
and the bonding has become stronger
with those in closer contact
And like ships captains sitting
in deck chairs on the shore
we look out to the sea and say:-
"Now those were the days , my friend !"

Thursday, December 2, 2010

harry potter blog


There were once three brothers who were traveling along a lonely, winding road at twilight.

In time, the brothers reached a river too deep to wade through and too dangerous to swim across. However, these brothers were learned in the magical arts, and so they simply waved their wands and made a bridge appear across the treacherous water. They were halfway across it when they found their path blocked by a hooded figure.

And Death spoke to them. He was angry that he had been cheated out of three new victims, for travelers usually drowned in the river. But Death was cunning. He pretended to congratulate the three brothers upon their magic, and said that each had earned a prize for having been clever enough to evade him.

So the oldest brother, who was a combative man, asked for a wand more powerful than any in existence: a wand that must always win duels for its owner, a wand worthy of a wizard who had conquered Death! So Death crossed to an elder tree on the banks of the river, fashioned a wand from a branch that hung there, and gave it to the oldest bother.

Then the second brother, who was an arrogant man, decided that he wanted to humiliate Death still further, and asked for the power to recall others from Death. So Death picked up a stone from the riverbank and gave it to the second brother, and told him that the stone would have the power to bring back the dead.

And then Death asked the third and youngest brother what he would like. The youngest brother was the humblest and also the wisest of the brothers, and he did not trust Death. So he asked for something that would enable him to go forth from the place without being followed by Death. And Death, most unwillingly, handed over his own Cloak of Invisibility.

Then Death stood aside and allowed the three brothers to continue on their way, and they did so, talking with wonder of the adventure they had had, and admiring Death’s gifts.

In due course the brothers separated, each for his own destination.

The first brother traveled on for a week or more, and reaching a distant village, sought out a fellow wizard with whom he had a quarrel. Naturally, with the Elder Wand as his weapon, he could not fail to win the duel that followed. Leaving his enemy dead upon the floor, the oldest brother proceeded to an inn, where he boasted loudly of the powerful wand he had snatched from Death himself, and of how it made him invincible.

That very night, another wizard crept upon the oldest brother as he lay, wine-sodden, upon his bed. The thief took the wand and, for good measure, slit the oldest brother’s throat.
And so Death took the first brother for his own.

Meanwhile, the second brother journeyed to his own house, where he lived alone. Here he took out the stone that had the power to recall the dead, and turned it thrice in his hand. To his amazement and his delight, the figure of the girl he had once hoped to marry, before her untimely death, appeared at once before him.


Yet she was sad and cold, separated from him as by a veil. Though she had returned to the mortal world, she did not truly belong there and suffered. Finally the second brother, driven mad with hopeless longing, killed himself so truly to join her.

And so Death took the second brother for his own.

But though Death searched for the third brother for many years, he was never able to find him. It was only when he had attained a great age that the youngest brother finally took off the Cloak of Invisibility and gave it to his son. And then he greeted Death as an old friend, and went with him gladly, and, equals, they departed this life.

The Tale of the Three Brothers is sourced from Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (pp. 406-409), the seventh and final of the Harry Potter novels written by British author J. K. Rowling.

TRIVIA: The Three Brothers were named by Rowling as Antioch, Ignotus and Cadmus - the Peverell Brothers.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

mingocarlos blogssss: angels

mingocarlos blogssss: angels: "Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?” (Hebrews 1:14) Wayne and Doreen’s three-year-ol..."

angels





Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?” (Hebrews 1:14)
Hands of SafetyWayne and Doreen’s three-year-old son Cameron had cancer and was admitted to the hospital for treatments. The hospital was an hour drive from their home and every evening Doreen would drive to the hospital to be with Cameron until the treatment was over. Watching him suffer broke her heart. Most evenings, after she said good-bye, she would cry because of what was happening to her little boy.
One pitch-dark night, while driving home in the pouring rain, she was crying so hard she could hardly see the road. Susddenly, she felt a presence beside her and she began to feel peaceful. It seemed like she was resting in the arms of the Lord. It was an angel in the passenger seat. He took hold of the steering wheel and drove the car all the way to her home. She said the angel had the kindest face.
Again, years later, when her son was 23 years old, he had to have reconstructive surgery to repair the damage the cancer had done to his face. Some of the bones had ceased to grow after the cancer he had as a child. The surgery they were trying had never been done before on bone weakened by radiation. The surgeon didn’t know if the bone would bond again after the procedure or what the outcome would be.
After the surgery, the doctor, who was not a Christian, came to the lobby and sat in a chair and just looked at Wayne and Doreen. Wayne asked,
“Is Cameron alright?”
The surgeon began to cry and then he said,
“Someone was moving my hands.”
Doreen realized it was an angel and told him so. The surgeon answered,
“Whatever it was, it was absolutely wonderful.”
They all cried because they knew they had just experienced something supernatural. They had experienced God.
Father God, You are an awesome God! ‘Who is like you – majestic in holiness, awesome in glory, working wonders?’ We love You. Thank You for Your compassion and Your loving kindness. Amen.
Angels are sent from God--they are His servants to care for us. God is so very good and kind to us.
Have you ever prayed to give your life to Him?
If you would like to have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ, you can say this prayer:
Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make the kind of person You want me to be.
If you prayed today and asked Jesus Christ to come into your life and take control, we would love to hear from you. Drop us a quick line using the form below and if you're looking for a response, we'll do that too.

Why Jesus is Better Than Santa Claus


 

Santa lives at the North Pole...
     JESUS is everywhere.

Santa rides in a sleigh...
     JESUS rides on the wind and walks on the water.
Santa comes but once a year...
     JESUS is an ever present help.
Santa fills your stockings with goodies...
     JESUS supplies all your needs.
Santa comes down your chimney uninvited...
     JESUS stands at your door and knocks, and then enters your heart when invited.
You have to wait in line to see Santa...
     JESUS is as close as the mention of His name.
Santa lets you sit on his lap...
     JESUS lets you rest in His arms.
Santa doesn't know your name, all he can say is "Hi little boy or girl, what's your name?"...
     JESUS knew our name before we were born.  Not only does He know our name, He knows our address too. He knows our history and future and He even knows how many hairs are on our heads.
Santa has a belly like a bowl full of jelly...
     JESUS has a heart full of love
All Santa can offer is HO HO HO...
    JESUS offers health, help and hope.
Santa says "You better not cry"...
     JESUS says "Cast all your cares on me for I care for you."
Santa's little helpers make toys...
    JESUS makes new life, mends wounded hearts, repairs broken homes and builds mansions.
Santa may make you chuckle but...
    JESUS gives you joy that is your strength.
While Santa puts gifts under your tree...
     JESUS became our gift and died on a tree...the cross.
We need to put Christ back in CHRISTmas, Jesus is still the reason for the season.
"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (John 3:16).
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Would you like to know Jesus?
You can have peace and find hope and know forgiveness through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
You can receive Christ right now by faith through prayer. Praying is simply talking to God. God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is with the attitude of your heart. Here's a suggested prayer:
Lord Jesus, I want to know You personally. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life to You and ask You to come in as my Saviour and Lord. Take control of my life. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Bring peace to my world this Christmas. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.
If this prayer expresses the desire of your heart, pray it right now and Christ will come into your life as He promised. If you invited Jesus Christ into your life, thank God often that He is in your life, that He will never leave you and that you have eternal life.

christian quotes

 

Christian laughs

 

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There was a very gracious lady who was mailing an old family bible to her brother in another part of the country. "Is there anything breakable in here?" asked the postal clerk.
"Only the Ten Commandments," answered the lady.
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"Somebody has said there are only two kinds of people in the world. There are those who wake up in the morning and say,
"Good morning, Lord,"
and there are those who wake up in the morning and say,
"Good Lord, it's morning."
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There is the story of a pastor who got up one Sunday and announced to his congregation:
"I have good news and bad news. The good news is, we have enough money to pay for our new building program. The bad news is, it's still out there in your pockets."
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While driving in Pennsylvania, a family caught up to an Amish carriage. The owner of the carriage obviously had a sense of humor because attached to the back of the carriage was a hand printed sign...
"Energy efficient vehicle: Runs on oats and grass. Caution: Do not step in exhaust."
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A Sunday school teacher began her lesson with a question,
"Boys and girls, what do we know about God?
A hand shot up in the air,
"He is an artist!" said the kindergarten boy.
"Really? How do you know?" the teacher asked.
"You know - Our Father, who does art in Heaven...."
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People want the front of the bus, the back of the church and the center of attention.
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A father was approached by his small son who told him proudly,
"I know what the bible means!"
His father smiled and replied,
"What do you mean, you 'know' what the bible means?"
The son replied,
"I do know!"
"Okay," said his father, "what does the bible mean?"
"That's easy, Daddy,"
the young boy replied excitedly,
"It stands for 'Basic Information Before Leaving Earth.'"
~~~~~~~~~~
Sunday after church, a mom asked her very young daughter what the lesson was about.
The daughter answered,
"Don't be scared, you'll get your quilt."
Needless to say, the mom was perplexed. Later in the day, the pastor stopped by for tea and the mom asked him what that morning's Sunday school lesson was about.
He said
"Be not afraid, thy comforter is coming."
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The minister was preoccupied with thoughts of how he was going to ask the congregation to come up with more money than they were expecting for repairs to the church building. Therefore, he was annoyed to find that the regular organist was sick and a substitute had been brought in at the last minute. The substitute wanted to know what to play.
"Here's a copy of the service," he said impatiently. "But, you'll have to think of something to play after I make the announcement about the finances."
During the service, the minister paused and said,
"Brothers and Sisters, we are in great difficulty; the roof repairs cost twice as much as we expected and we need $4,000 more. Any of you who can pledge $100 or more, please stand up."
At that moment, the substitute organist played,
"The Star Spangled Banner."
And that is how the substitute became the regular organist!
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Give me a sense of humor, Lord,
Give me the grace to see a joke,
To get some humor out of life.
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To The Lamb of God


NOTE: The battle rages on every side and it may feel like you are
going through some deep dark waters. The very foundation you
are standing on is being shaken. Yet you are victorious and will
emerge triumphant, being made whole because of the
finished work done at the Cross of Calvary. May this poem bring
comfort and inspiration, as you go through these most difficult
and trying times!
To love and not be loved
To be despised and rejected
By your very own.
To speak truth,
And still be called a liar.
To suffer pain and humiliation
To be faithful in spite of it all.
To be condemned to die
Without any evidence of doing
Anything wrong.
To be hung on a tree,
And stripped of everything
Except God the Father's Love.
Yes, Jesus Christ the Lamb of God
Willingly gave up His life so that you and I
Can be free to live an abundant life,
Experiencing God's Love in the midst
Of your circumstances.
Glory, Honor, and Praise to The Lamb Of God!

famous quotes



"A bizarre sensation pervades a relationship of pretense. No truth seems true. A simple morning's greeting and response appear loaded with innuendo and fraught with implications. Each nicety becomes more sterile and each withdrawal more permanent."
"Achievement brings its own anticlimax."
"All great achievements require time."
"All men are prepared to accomplish the incredible if their ideals are threatened."
"Any book that helps a child to form a habit of reading, to make reading one of his deep and continuing needs, is good for him."
"As far as I knew white women were never lonely, except in books. White men adored them, Black men desired them and Black women worked for them."
"At fifteen life had taught me undeniably that surrender, in its place, was as honorable as resistance, especially if one had no choice."
"Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean."
"Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives."
"Courage is the most important of all the virtues, because without courage you can't practice any other virtue consistently. You can practice any virtue erratically, but nothing consistently without courage."
"Education helps one case cease being intimidated by strange situations."
"Effective action is always unjust."
"For Africa to me... is more than a glamorous fact. It is a historical truth. No man can know where he is going unless he knows exactly where he has been and exactly how he arrived at his present place."
"How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!"
"I am overwhelmed by the grace and persistence of my people."
"I answer the heroic question "Death, where is they sting?" with "It is here in my heart and mind and memories.""
"I believe that every person is born with talent."
"I believe we are still so innocent. The species are still so innocent that a person who is apt to be murdered believes that the murderer, just before he puts the final wrench on his throat, will have enough compassion to give him one sweet cup of water."
"I find it interresting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed."
"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass."
"If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform a million realities."
"If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities."
"If we lose love and self respect for each other, this is how we finally die."
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain."
"If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded."
"If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love. Don't be surly at home, then go out in the street and start grinning 'Good morning' at total strangers."
"It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength."
"Life loves the liver of it."
"Life loves to be taken by the lapel and told: ''I'm with you kid. Let's go.''"
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
"Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness."
"My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return."
"My life has been one great big joke, a dance that's walked a song that's spoke, I laugh so hard I almost choke when I think about myself."
"My mother said I must always be intolerant of ignorance but understanding of illiteracy. That some people, unable to go to school, were more educated and more intelligent than college professors."
"Nature has no mercy at all. Nature says, "I'm going to snow. If you have on a bikini and no snowshoes, that's tough. I am going to snow anyway.""
"Nothing will work unless you do."
"Of all the needs (there are none imaginary) a lonely child has, the one that must be satisfied, if there is going to be hope and a hope of wholeness, is the unshaken need for an unshakable God."
"One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest."
"Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends."
"Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past, threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible."
"Self-pity in its early stages is as snug as a feather mattress. Only when it hardens does it become uncomfortable."
"Since time is the one immaterial object which we cannot influence - neither speed up nor slow down, add to nor diminish - it is an imponderably valuable gift."
"Some critics will write 'Maya Angelou is a natural writer' - which is right after being a natural heart surgeon."
"Something made greater by ourselves and in turn that makes us greater."
"The fact that the adult American Negro female emerges a formidable character is often met with amazement, distaste and even belligerance. It is seldom accepted as an inevitable outcome of the struggle won by survivors, and deserves respect if not enthusiastic acceptance."
"The need for change bulldozed road down the center of my mind."
"The quality of strength lined with tenderness is an unbeatable combination, as are intelligence and necessity when unblunted by formal education."
"The sadness of the women's movement is that they don't allow the necessity of love. See, I don't personally trust any revolution where love is not allowed."
"There is a very fine line between loving life and being greedy for it."
"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."
"There is nothing so pitiful as a young cynic because he has gone from knowing nothing to believing nothing."
"There's a world of difference between truth and facts. Facts can obscure the truth."
"We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color."
"We allow our ignorance to prevail upon us and make us think we can survive alone, alone in patches, alone in groups, alone in races, even alone in genders."
"We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated."
"While I know myself as a creation of God, I am also obligated to realize and remember that everyone else and everything else are also God's creation."
"Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with deeper meaning."

Saturday, November 20, 2010

tears

When I was a young boy, I had a an Aunt who had quarreled some years before with a brother she had love very much.  At the height of the quarrel, he had written his angry letter saying he would never see her again.  And indeed he never did.  My Aunt kept the letter, and each Saturday afternoon, for the rest of her life, she would go into her garden, reread the letter, and cry.
                A brilliant college professor told me recently that he has a secret “vice.”  Whenever the pressure of his work becomes severe or the frustration of his personal life begin to mount, he puts everything aside and goes to the movie houses.
                “I try to find a particularly sentimental film,”  he says, “and I sit in the back row in a corner, where I’m more or less alone.  Then I wait for the maudlin scenes and bawl like a baby.”
                The young mother of three small and rambunctious sons has the same vice.  When the youngster have been particularly trying or the budget simply can’t be stretched to pay another new clothes, or the washer breaks at the middle of the laundry day, she sends her boy to their grandmother’s house for the afternoon, turn on the record player, and weeps.
                “Then I turn off the record player, put a cold towel on my eyes for a few minutes, and I’m fit to face the world again.”
                The chance are that your first reaction to these small episodes is one of disapproval.  Why should a woman make a point of morbidly reviving grief over and over again?  What a weak man professor must be if he can sit weeping over the maudlin scene of a second rate film!  Doesn’t a young wife have anything better to do than drown herself in self-pity?  But if you’ll think about it for a minute, and you’ll realize that these people had found a harmless, effective, and controllable way of getting rid of feelings that might otherwise have been emotionally or even physically damaging.
                Tears are a natural and universal release for many minor emotions.  They siphon off the small frustration that confront all of us every hour of every day.  They are a way of protesting the things we can’t do anything about.
                But natural and universal as the function of weeping is, society has surrounded it with an extraordinary number of taboos and restrictions vary from one nationality to another, but they are generally the most stringent among the Americans, the British, and the Prussians.
                In theory, among these peoples, men are never supposed to cry except in bereavement.
                Women are allowed just a little more latitude and are permitted to weep on public on such sentimental occasions as weddings and privately at disappointments in their love relationships.  But is considered poor taste for them to exceed these prescribed limits.
                Italian men, women, and children weep unashamedly on almost any sentimental or touching occasions.
                Russians and Polish soldiers traditionally cry when they drink.
                In most countries, both men and women weep in church, and at concerts, and only among Anglo-Saxons are a child’s tears, for whatever reasons, considered a breach of etiquette.
                Why should we cry?  Because it depressurizes us emotionally, and thus relieves stresses that may affect even our bodies.  Of course there is a difference between people who merely restrain their fears most of the time and those who have disciplined themselves unable to cry.  And among the latter, there is evidence that certain physical diseases are aggravated by inability to find release in tears.
                Coronary disorders often occur in people who are unable to find release in tears and if the victims can be induced to cry, an improvement is often shown in the heart condition.
                Any student of psychoanalysis—and, indeed, anyone who has been a patient in this kind of treatment—knows the important role that tears play in therapy.  Everyone cries in analysis, and everyone experiences a feeling of almost euphoric relief in tears, as though the weight had been lifted on constricting band loosened.
                Contrary to what many believe, tears are not necessarily the mark of deep emotions, but are more often the relief of an accumulation of feelings relatively close to the surface.  We cry in frustration, in irritation, in fatigue, in sentimentality—all superficial but universal feelings that must and should find some recurrent release.  And obviously tears in themselves are neither a solution any emotional problem nor a cure for any physical disease.
                But civilized living requires that on many occasions we exercise strong controls or ourselves.  We are expected to deal with out children and our neighbors and our business associates with a show of calm assurance.  We are required to meet crisis and catastrophe without breaking down.  But rigid control maintained through all your waking hours is itself unnecessary, exhausting, and sometimes damaging.  And it is important to our happiness at the times when there is not a challenge to be met or a contest to be won.
                The college professor and the young mother have learned this lesson, and so, I think, had my Aunt.  None of them was crying about the situation at hand.  Obviously, the highly intelligent educator was not truly moved by the mawkish scenes on the screen; nor was the woman weeping to the strain of a song actually crying to the music.  I do not even believe that, as the years passed, my Aunt’s tears any longer had much relation to her brother and their almost forgotten quarrel.  Instead, each of the three had found a device for precipitating tears, a device that they themselves could regulate and that enabled them to decontrol their feelings at a time and place where crying could be expected to pass unnoticed or, if not, where the release of their motions could not possibly be harmful to anyone.
                The Bible says there is “a time to weep,” and it seems to me that if we choose our time carefully—perhaps in church, perhaps at the movie houses, perhaps in the privacy of our bedroom or garden, wherever our tears will not hurt or embarrass others—we can use this natural safety valve to dissolve away many of our tensions.

meaning of birthday

Is your birthday day 1 of the month?
Your Life
You are very curious and dedicative. When you are
interested in something,
everything else has to wait. This is your quality.
But if you learn to be
more patient and complete what you have started,
you will be successful in
life.
Your Love
You believe in love at first sight. You won’t wait to
learn more about the
person. Vise versa, people who fail to impress you
will hardly get a chance
to be your friend. Your emotion is on the extreme.
You can only love or
hate, nothing in between and this often shows in
your ________expression. Try not to
end a relationship in a quarrel.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 2 of the month?
Your Life
You have great common sense but usually fail to
follow through. This might
happens because you are too busy with your
mission and shut yourself from
the outside world. You are clever and profound so
there’s a slight chance
for self-control problem.
Your Love
Your love progress slowly, and quietly. You seem
to be contented with your
unrequited love. Your are a romantic and loyal lover.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 3 of the month?
Your Life
Although you are innocent and romantic but your
________expression often mislead
others that you are an active, fun loving kid.
Because of your double
personality, it’s hard for others to really know the
real you. You are
careful and patient.
Your Love
Your love is the greatest which often surprises
others. No one can bring you
to light when you are in love. Your confidence
might lead you to the track your parents disagree.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 4 of the month?
Your Life
You usually think before acting which makes your
life quite easy. But you
often are the one who give yourself a hard time by
being paranoid. People
might not truly understand you but you are really
nice to be around. You are
cheerful and friendly.
Your Love
Still water runs deep, that’s what you are. You
always surprise others with
your new character when you are in love. Your love
trap often comes
unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 5 of the month?
Your Life
Although you are on the quiet side, but you enjoy
excitement and changes.
Routine is something you cannot stand. Because
of your extreme confidence,
you hardly ask others for opinion. You believe in
leading your own life, and
you have got the gift in doing so.
Your Love
Nothing can stop you from making progress in your
love life. Once you are in
love, you feel the ownership of your lover. A third
party can only makes
your jealousy becomes worse.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 6 of the month?
Your Life
You are generous with people in need, sometimes
to an extreme that people
find you nosey. Your hidden courage and
dedication often surprise others.
Your imagination is extremely unique.
Your Love
Your love life is on the smooth track because it
grows from friendship.
Although you may not make a sweet lover but your
sincerity bring happiness
to your couple.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 7 of the month?
Your Life
You are sensitive to changes around you but your
feeling is hardly
expressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your
quiet personality, you are
rather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities
are the force behind your
extreme persistence.
Your Love
You have enormous courage to please your lover.
Your relationship often
progress quickly.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 8 of the month?
Your Life
You have pleasant and friendly personality. People
look u to your wit and
imagination. You are unpredictable and hardly
complete what you started,
which sometimes create negative impact to people
around you.
Your Love
Falling in love becomes your routine. Most of the
time you are lucky. You
fascinate people with good taste but you never
have enough with one.
Although your love progresses very fast, it never
lasts.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 9 of the month?

your Life
You often have problem in promoting yourself, just
because you don’t know
how to express your true self. On the other hand,
you don’t really care what
they think. This is why people misunderstand you
until they really get a
chance to learn about your pleasant personality.
Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth
searching. Your wit is remarkable
but sometimes you are too fast to follow.
Your Love
You won’t reveal your feeling even after dreaming
about the same guy over
and over. Your first love lasts forever. You are
responsible to the feeling
of your lover. The chance to betray your lover is
none. You have luck with
children. You Will be Happy Always with u r Love
Marraige. and she
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 10 of the month?
Your Life
You are very capable. If you are a woman, you
have high chance to be a
renowned workingwoman. If you are a man, your
path to fame and honor is
near. As an innovator, you are not a good follower.
You are good in
implementing your imagination and share it with
others. You are always well dressed.
Your Love
You often lose your love ones from being too
jealous. You always feel like
you own the person you fall in love with and that
often blows your
relationship.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 11 of the month?

Your Life
You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People
admire your qualities and some
even become jealous of you. You are realistic,
flexible and adaptable. You
are remarkably kind and moral person.
Your Love
You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you
love. Your lover will
always have your gentleness, care and loyalty.
You will always be happy to
hand around the one you love.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 12 of the month?
Your Life
You are friendly, humorous and full of energy. You
are open-minded and do
not care for minor details. Your weak point is your
hot temper.
Your Love
You are willing to start off in one-sided love affairs
because you strongly
believe that you will eventually win his/her heart.
On the other hand, once
you are together, you always want to do things
your way, which is often the
fire starter. You usually run in and out of love
quickly.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 13 of the month?
Your Life
You are sincere and easy going. Flattering and
charming around are not your
style. You care so much for freedom that often
leads you to the difficult
path. Because of your sincerity, most people find
you easy to be around
although you are sometimes too straightforward.
Your Love
Your gentleness, care and sincerity make you an
attractive person.
Eventhough you don’t intend to be charming, but
you naturally are,
especially in the eyes of opposite sex.
———————————————————-
Is your birthday day 14 of the month?
Your Life
You are so confident that sometimes you forget
about the people around you.
If you have to be in one of the two teams, you will
choose to be in the
winning team. On the other hand, you are kind and
caring but above all, you
care for your own benefits. Your imagination is
unique and often gets implemented shortly after it
comes across.
Your Love
You will not get soft with the one you don’t really
like, no matter how hard
he/she tries. But once you feel for someone you
have chosen, there’s no
getting back.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 15 of the month?
Your Life
You are outgoing and love to be at the center of
attention. From the
outside, you may seem flashy, flirty, and tricky but
your true self is
strong, full of hope to be the leader. When you
fail to convince someone, you will get frustrated,
and perhaps let your
temper shows.
Your Love
You are emotional. Many can win your heart at
once, but not for long. This
is why you hardly win a decent relationship.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 16 of the month?
Your Life
You always follow the good and the right instead of
listening to your heart.
Another word, you are a perfectionist. You care for
every word people say
about you. You often seen isolated while you are,
by nature, curious and a
dreamer who is ready to get over the edge to make
your dream comes true.
Your Love
You often fall in love with a person who is much
different from you, in age
and other aspects. Your relationship grows on
friendship. Love at fist sight
is not your style.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 17 of the month?
Your Life
You neither want to be interfered nor have the
desire to mess with others’
life. But you are friendly and occasionally a party
animal. You are always
in a circle of friends. You often do things in your
own way that
occasionally go beyond the acceptable limit.
People may find you childish
and not very attractive in that sense.
Your Love
Your fun-loving character attracts opposite sex.
Many of those are great.You
often find yourself trapped among a few great guys
while you have to choose
only one.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 18 of the month?
Your Life
At first glance, people think you are quiet type of
person. Actually you are
cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your
joyful character only in
good mood. One the other hand, when you are
moody, no one would dare to be
around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and
frank character, some find
you hard to be around.
Your Love
You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex
no matter how much you
like him/her. Your partner also has similar
character so your love affairs
often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all.
Your sincerity
makes you very attractive.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 19 of the month?
Your Life
You are great in managing everything in your life
and this is how you gain
respect from others. Because of this quality, you
sometimes feel that you
are better than the rest. Extreme confidence might
lead you to the wrong
path. You are a free bird and want to lead your
own life.
Your Love
You love life is rather different from others’. When
you are in love,
nothing can stop you. You may often fight with
your partner but, soon after
that, you will make up in a way that surprises
others.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 20 of the month?
Your Life
You are prudent, circumspect and take things
seriously. Before you make any
move, you will think of a few alternatives that might
take a while. You are
patient, imaginative and target oriented. You value
friendship more than
anything else.
Your Love
You usually study your partner carefully before
making any move. You never
demand anything beyond the natural quality of that
person. Your sincerity
doesn’t bring excitement in your love life but it
brings deeply grown
relationship.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 21 of the month?
Your Life
You are curious and a true follower. You can
please someone so much that it
seem like you are trying to charm that person. You
hide your disagreement
under your smiling face. This is a charming quality
of yours.
Your Love
You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by
someone you don’t like while
your dream man is so far away. Your love life is
occasionally under
turbulence. Sometimes you don’t have the clear
view of the guy in your
heart.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 22 of the month?
Your Life
You have the boss character, but not a leader.
Most people look up to you
for your capability and confidence although they
find you quite stubborn.
You should listen more to others. You are a unique
and charming individual.
Your Love
You hardly take the moderate track. You either
love or hate someone. Whom
you call friends are the chosen ones. If any of them
betray you, you won’t
let them get away without having hard time.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 23 of the month?
Your Life
You never live your life in the way others want you
to. You are an
independent individual who loves challenges and
excitement. You are ready to
face with the result of your decision. You are
usually the one your friends
count on.
Your Love
Because you love excitements, you occasionally
get involved in forbidden
love affairs. You may fall in love with a married
person and no one can stop
you from making progress. You are very charming,
although you might not
realize it.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 24 of the month?
Your Life
You are very optimistic and that’s why you always
enjoy life. You are gifted
in entertaining others. Your friends love and trust
you. You’ll be the first
they come to when they are in need of someone to
speak their heart out.
Your Love
Sometimes you fall in love just because you want
to be in love, not that you
really like that person. You always be seen as a
sweet couple but you can’t
really get over your love ones from past. Your
partner is usually crazy
about you because you are remarkably charming
and
romantic.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 25 of the month?
Your Life
You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from
reaching your goal. You
always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your
responsibility will
eventually bring you success.
Your Love
You adore your partner as the number one priority.
You value your love one
more than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all
and your have potential
to get married young.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 26 of the month?
Your Life
You are always curious and responsive to
changes. Routine life is not the
way you choose to live. Travelling is your favorite
hobby because excitement
is what you are after.
Your Love
You will not stand being around the one you
dislike. Your love comes and
goes quickly. You can be deeply in love but soon
after you will be looking
around for the next one.
———————————————————–

Is your birthday day 27 of the month?
Your Life
You are sensitive and vulnerable. Tears often run
down your cheeks even when
the matter is not that bad. This might be the result
from being to
pessimistic. You might seem cold on the shell, but
your inner self is a kind
loving person.
Your Love
You will be elegantly dressed, no matter how
casually dressed your date may
be. You are emanding in love and sometimes to an
unacceptable extend.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 28 of the month?
Your Life
You are a capable person but you usually
underestimate your own ability.
This is the cause of missing numbers of
opportunity to step forward. If you
try to give yourself a chance, you can be
successful in life. Try to see
things on the bright side and you will be happier
than ever.
Your Love
You are quite unlucky in love. The one in your arm
is not the one in your
heart. Your love has so many ups and downs. You
often chicken out before
seeing any progress in love.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 29 of the month?
Your Life
You can trust your sixth sense. Life is exciting so
routine job is not your
interest. You have great ideas and fantastic
imagination. You often feel
tired of things and people around you.
Your Love
You can tell what’s in the mind of another person
just from looking into
his/her eyes. You are paranoid and jealous and
these are the cause of fights
between you and your lover.
Sometimes the thing you believe in is just your
imagination.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 30 of the month?
Your Life
You are always surrounded by a circle of friends.
You are friendly and fun
to be with. Though you occasionally disappoint
them by being stubborn, but
over all, they love your qualities.
Your Love
You want to have full control of your love and that’s
not a nice way to
treat your partner. You take your time in saying
yes to his wedding proposal
or if you are a man, you will not propose anyone
until you are certainly
confident which might take ages.
———————————————————-
Is your birthday day 31 of the month?
Your Life
Your emotion is hard to predict. You can be sad
this minute and happy in the
next. People might find it difficult to follow your
emotion and understand
you. You tend to take things seriously.
Your Love
You take your time to study a person before falling
in love. Once you decide
that he or she is the one, no one can stop you from
making progress, even
your partner.

the meaning of your birthay

Is your birthday day 1 of the month?
Your Life
You are very curious and dedicative. When you are
interested in something,
everything else has to wait. This is your quality.
But if you learn to be
more patient and complete what you have started,
you will be successful in
life.
Your Love
You believe in love at first sight. You won’t wait to
learn more about the
person. Vise versa, people who fail to impress you
will hardly get a chance
to be your friend. Your emotion is on the extreme.
You can only love or
hate, nothing in between and this often shows in
your ________expression. Try not to
end a relationship in a quarrel.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 2 of the month?
Your Life
You have great common sense but usually fail to
follow through. This might
happens because you are too busy with your
mission and shut yourself from
the outside world. You are clever and profound so
there’s a slight chance
for self-control problem.
Your Love
Your love progress slowly, and quietly. You seem
to be contented with your
unrequited love. Your are a romantic and loyal lover.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 3 of the month?
Your Life
Although you are innocent and romantic but your
________expression often mislead
others that you are an active, fun loving kid.
Because of your double
personality, it’s hard for others to really know the
real you. You are
careful and patient.
Your Love
Your love is the greatest which often surprises
others. No one can bring you
to light when you are in love. Your confidence
might lead you to the track your parents disagree.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 4 of the month?
Your Life
You usually think before acting which makes your
life quite easy. But you
often are the one who give yourself a hard time by
being paranoid. People
might not truly understand you but you are really
nice to be around. You are
cheerful and friendly.
Your Love
Still water runs deep, that’s what you are. You
always surprise others with
your new character when you are in love. Your love
trap often comes
unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 5 of the month?
Your Life
Although you are on the quiet side, but you enjoy
excitement and changes.
Routine is something you cannot stand. Because
of your extreme confidence,
you hardly ask others for opinion. You believe in
leading your own life, and
you have got the gift in doing so.
Your Love
Nothing can stop you from making progress in your
love life. Once you are in
love, you feel the ownership of your lover. A third
party can only makes
your jealousy becomes worse.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 6 of the month?
Your Life
You are generous with people in need, sometimes
to an extreme that people
find you nosey. Your hidden courage and
dedication often surprise others.
Your imagination is extremely unique.
Your Love
Your love life is on the smooth track because it
grows from friendship.
Although you may not make a sweet lover but your
sincerity bring happiness
to your couple.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 7 of the month?
Your Life
You are sensitive to changes around you but your
feeling is hardly
expressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your
quiet personality, you are
rather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities
are the force behind your
extreme persistence.
Your Love
You have enormous courage to please your lover.
Your relationship often
progress quickly.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 8 of the month?
Your Life
You have pleasant and friendly personality. People
look u to your wit and
imagination. You are unpredictable and hardly
complete what you started,
which sometimes create negative impact to people
around you.
Your Love
Falling in love becomes your routine. Most of the
time you are lucky. You
fascinate people with good taste but you never
have enough with one.
Although your love progresses very fast, it never
lasts.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 9 of the month?

your Life
You often have problem in promoting yourself, just
because you don’t know
how to express your true self. On the other hand,
you don’t really care what
they think. This is why people misunderstand you
until they really get a
chance to learn about your pleasant personality.
Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth
searching. Your wit is remarkable
but sometimes you are too fast to follow.
Your Love
You won’t reveal your feeling even after dreaming
about the same guy over
and over. Your first love lasts forever. You are
responsible to the feeling
of your lover. The chance to betray your lover is
none. You have luck with
children. You Will be Happy Always with u r Love
Marraige. and she
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 10 of the month?
Your Life
You are very capable. If you are a woman, you
have high chance to be a
renowned workingwoman. If you are a man, your
path to fame and honor is
near. As an innovator, you are not a good follower.
You are good in
implementing your imagination and share it with
others. You are always well dressed.
Your Love
You often lose your love ones from being too
jealous. You always feel like
you own the person you fall in love with and that
often blows your
relationship.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 11 of the month?

Your Life
You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People
admire your qualities and some
even become jealous of you. You are realistic,
flexible and adaptable. You
are remarkably kind and moral person.
Your Love
You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you
love. Your lover will
always have your gentleness, care and loyalty.
You will always be happy to
hand around the one you love.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 12 of the month?
Your Life
You are friendly, humorous and full of energy. You
are open-minded and do
not care for minor details. Your weak point is your
hot temper.
Your Love
You are willing to start off in one-sided love affairs
because you strongly
believe that you will eventually win his/her heart.
On the other hand, once
you are together, you always want to do things
your way, which is often the
fire starter. You usually run in and out of love
quickly.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 13 of the month?
Your Life
You are sincere and easy going. Flattering and
charming around are not your
style. You care so much for freedom that often
leads you to the difficult
path. Because of your sincerity, most people find
you easy to be around
although you are sometimes too straightforward.
Your Love
Your gentleness, care and sincerity make you an
attractive person.
Eventhough you don’t intend to be charming, but
you naturally are,
especially in the eyes of opposite sex.
———————————————————-
Is your birthday day 14 of the month?
Your Life
You are so confident that sometimes you forget
about the people around you.
If you have to be in one of the two teams, you will
choose to be in the
winning team. On the other hand, you are kind and
caring but above all, you
care for your own benefits. Your imagination is
unique and often gets implemented shortly after it
comes across.
Your Love
You will not get soft with the one you don’t really
like, no matter how hard
he/she tries. But once you feel for someone you
have chosen, there’s no
getting back.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 15 of the month?
Your Life
You are outgoing and love to be at the center of
attention. From the
outside, you may seem flashy, flirty, and tricky but
your true self is
strong, full of hope to be the leader. When you
fail to convince someone, you will get frustrated,
and perhaps let your
temper shows.
Your Love
You are emotional. Many can win your heart at
once, but not for long. This
is why you hardly win a decent relationship.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 16 of the month?
Your Life
You always follow the good and the right instead of
listening to your heart.
Another word, you are a perfectionist. You care for
every word people say
about you. You often seen isolated while you are,
by nature, curious and a
dreamer who is ready to get over the edge to make
your dream comes true.
Your Love
You often fall in love with a person who is much
different from you, in age
and other aspects. Your relationship grows on
friendship. Love at fist sight
is not your style.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 17 of the month?
Your Life
You neither want to be interfered nor have the
desire to mess with others’
life. But you are friendly and occasionally a party
animal. You are always
in a circle of friends. You often do things in your
own way that
occasionally go beyond the acceptable limit.
People may find you childish
and not very attractive in that sense.
Your Love
Your fun-loving character attracts opposite sex.
Many of those are great.You
often find yourself trapped among a few great guys
while you have to choose
only one.
———————————————————–
Is your birthday day 18 of the month?
Your Life
At first glance, people think you are quiet type of
person. Actually you are
cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your
joyful character only in
good mood. One the other hand, when you are
moody, no one would dare to be
around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and
frank character, some find
you hard to be around.
Your Love
You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex
no matter how much you
like him/her. Your partner also has similar
character so your love affairs
often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all.
Your sincerity
makes you very attractive.
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Is your birthday day 19 of the month?
Your Life
You are great in managing everything in your life
and this is how you gain
respect from others. Because of this quality, you
sometimes feel that you
are better than the rest. Extreme confidence might
lead you to the wrong
path. You are a free bird and want to lead your
own life.
Your Love
You love life is rather different from others’. When
you are in love,
nothing can stop you. You may often fight with
your partner but, soon after
that, you will make up in a way that surprises
others.
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Is your birthday day 20 of the month?
Your Life
You are prudent, circumspect and take things
seriously. Before you make any
move, you will think of a few alternatives that might
take a while. You are
patient, imaginative and target oriented. You value
friendship more than
anything else.
Your Love
You usually study your partner carefully before
making any move. You never
demand anything beyond the natural quality of that
person. Your sincerity
doesn’t bring excitement in your love life but it
brings deeply grown
relationship.
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Is your birthday day 21 of the month?
Your Life
You are curious and a true follower. You can
please someone so much that it
seem like you are trying to charm that person. You
hide your disagreement
under your smiling face. This is a charming quality
of yours.
Your Love
You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by
someone you don’t like while
your dream man is so far away. Your love life is
occasionally under
turbulence. Sometimes you don’t have the clear
view of the guy in your
heart.
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Is your birthday day 22 of the month?
Your Life
You have the boss character, but not a leader.
Most people look up to you
for your capability and confidence although they
find you quite stubborn.
You should listen more to others. You are a unique
and charming individual.
Your Love
You hardly take the moderate track. You either
love or hate someone. Whom
you call friends are the chosen ones. If any of them
betray you, you won’t
let them get away without having hard time.
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Is your birthday day 23 of the month?
Your Life
You never live your life in the way others want you
to. You are an
independent individual who loves challenges and
excitement. You are ready to
face with the result of your decision. You are
usually the one your friends
count on.
Your Love
Because you love excitements, you occasionally
get involved in forbidden
love affairs. You may fall in love with a married
person and no one can stop
you from making progress. You are very charming,
although you might not
realize it.
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Is your birthday day 24 of the month?
Your Life
You are very optimistic and that’s why you always
enjoy life. You are gifted
in entertaining others. Your friends love and trust
you. You’ll be the first
they come to when they are in need of someone to
speak their heart out.
Your Love
Sometimes you fall in love just because you want
to be in love, not that you
really like that person. You always be seen as a
sweet couple but you can’t
really get over your love ones from past. Your
partner is usually crazy
about you because you are remarkably charming
and
romantic.
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Is your birthday day 25 of the month?
Your Life
You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from
reaching your goal. You
always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your
responsibility will
eventually bring you success.
Your Love
You adore your partner as the number one priority.
You value your love one
more than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all
and your have potential
to get married young.
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Is your birthday day 26 of the month?
Your Life
You are always curious and responsive to
changes. Routine life is not the
way you choose to live. Travelling is your favorite
hobby because excitement
is what you are after.
Your Love
You will not stand being around the one you
dislike. Your love comes and
goes quickly. You can be deeply in love but soon
after you will be looking
around for the next one.
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Is your birthday day 27 of the month?
Your Life
You are sensitive and vulnerable. Tears often run
down your cheeks even when
the matter is not that bad. This might be the result
from being to
pessimistic. You might seem cold on the shell, but
your inner self is a kind
loving person.
Your Love
You will be elegantly dressed, no matter how
casually dressed your date may
be. You are emanding in love and sometimes to an
unacceptable extend.
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Is your birthday day 28 of the month?
Your Life
You are a capable person but you usually
underestimate your own ability.
This is the cause of missing numbers of
opportunity to step forward. If you
try to give yourself a chance, you can be
successful in life. Try to see
things on the bright side and you will be happier
than ever.
Your Love
You are quite unlucky in love. The one in your arm
is not the one in your
heart. Your love has so many ups and downs. You
often chicken out before
seeing any progress in love.
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Is your birthday day 29 of the month?
Your Life
You can trust your sixth sense. Life is exciting so
routine job is not your
interest. You have great ideas and fantastic
imagination. You often feel
tired of things and people around you.
Your Love
You can tell what’s in the mind of another person
just from looking into
his/her eyes. You are paranoid and jealous and
these are the cause of fights
between you and your lover.
Sometimes the thing you believe in is just your
imagination.
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Is your birthday day 30 of the month?
Your Life
You are always surrounded by a circle of friends.
You are friendly and fun
to be with. Though you occasionally disappoint
them by being stubborn, but
over all, they love your qualities.
Your Love
You want to have full control of your love and that’s
not a nice way to
treat your partner. You take your time in saying
yes to his wedding proposal
or if you are a man, you will not propose anyone
until you are certainly
confident which might take ages.
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Is your birthday day 31 of the month?
Your Life
Your emotion is hard to predict. You can be sad
this minute and happy in the
next. People might find it difficult to follow your
emotion and understand
you. You tend to take things seriously.
Your Love
You take your time to study a person before falling
in love. Once you decide
that he or she is the one, no one can stop you from
making progress, even